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Originally Posted by apollo_artemis
So in short, focus my energy on the three houses that I'm qualified for, but don't exclude any other house that might want me back. I have joined a few clubs my freshman year, plus many activities I did in high school, and I know/have made friendly conversation with girls in various sororities. As much as waiting a semester or two might help me, I really want to rush now. I have four more years ahead of me in school (because of my major&minor) and I want to make the most of them in a sorority.
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Don't focus on any particular chapter. Treat them all the same. As someone else pointed out, word travels fast around the Greek community. If you act rude, uninterested, indifferent, etc. at one chapter, another chapter may find out about it. Girls gossip and talk. This is nothing new.
Also, consider the fact that you might not receive a bid this semester. So maybe you turn things around, improve your GPA, and end up being eligible to join any chapter (grade-wise) during the next recruitment period. What happens that next time around? Will the chapters remember you in a positive light or a negative one?
Or what happens if you do receive a bid, but now you're on the outs with the majority of other sororities because of your attitude during recruitment?
Again, stop worrying. Just be yourself and put your best foot forward... at every chapter.
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