Might sound weird, but if I am being completely honest...

[misscherrypie]

Old Row, our sorority (and chapter) does NOT haze in any way. I think that you were misunderstanding the situation and thinking that the social club and the sorority chapter were one entity. Which they are not.

[Old_Row]

Originally Posted by misscherrypie

Old Row, our sorority (and chapter) does NOT haze in any way. I think that you were misunderstanding the situation and thinking that the social club and the sorority chapter were one entity. Which they are not.

That's what I am not understanding. You created the coed social club because your school wouldn't recognize you as a sorority, but if a guy joins your club then he will be denied joining Beta Sigma Phi which was really the reason for you started the club in the first place. Telling some members they can't be part of another related organization that others are welcome in only because of their sex is like hazing because it makes different membership statuses.