Is it normal to regret which sorority you joined?

[FSUZeta]

Everyone feels overwhelmed at times and hey, you are dealing with a lot.

Most sororities consider an undergrad an alumna if she is no longer enrolled in the college where she was initiated. Since you are going to be attending a cc next semester, your problem will be solved (as long as you take care of your membership obligations until the end of this semester). You may want to confirm your status(and any requirements or paperwork that might need to be done) with one of your chapter's alumna advisors. You may find that in some year to come, you will be able to appreciate your sorority membership and be grateful that you did not resign your membership.

[AOII Angel]

It sounds like you are making changes that will improve your situation. As FSUZTA said, leaving the university will give you a chance to distance yourself from your chapter while preserving your membership with the organization. Make sure you leave in good standing. Hopefully being closer to home and away from stimuli that trigger emotions you can't handle at this time will be beneficial to you. Find a new counselor when you get to your new school. Don't stop therapy...it's hard to keep going when you can't afford it on your own, but you need help to deal with all the stressors in your life. Good luck.