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You are far from the only PNM who has experienced this. Recruitment can be one of those things you have "to live it to believe it." By that, I mean people often go into it with no idea of how emotional it can become...and getting released from your favorite HURTS. The shock and disappointment can override your better judgement. Such blows can be difficult for an adult with a lot of life experience; you are a young woman who may just be getting her feet wet in the world of disappointment.
That said, it sounds like you are turning this into a valuable learning and growing experience. I saw the first thread and you clearly have a better perspective on everything. Being honest with yourself often leads to that! I think that contacting the 2nd and 3rd chapters was a considerate and smart gesture. Your plan for moving forward is good -- continue getting to know the women in all sororities and visit their open campus events. In addition, keep your GPA up, present yourself well, get involved in some activities and don't rule out the other sororities that weren't in your top three.
I hope you have a great recruitment this fall and find a great sisterhood!
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