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Encourage her to get very involved with the sorority next semester. Join committees, help whenever a sister needs it, volunteer for additional projects or philanthropic activities. Getting involved in sorority "business" is a great way to interact with sisters, young and old, both in her pledge class and out.
Ironically, I have great relationships with the girls in my pledge class, but it wasn't because we were in the same class and were automatically BFFs. We weren't instantly close while we were pledging. We just kind of went through the motions. We became close later on. Interestingly, I think the first time I had that "sisterly feeling" is when my pledge class volunteered at a dance for mentally challenged adults. I initially saw it as almost a chore, but it turned out to be one of the best nights I've ever had, and we all really bonded for the first time.
Sometimes, you have those moments when you least expect them.
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