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Originally Posted by AzTheta
It is completely up to each individual sorority. There's no general rule. I would not comment on what my chapter has done in this situation.
And yes, you are getting into membership selection territory, IMO. You're also indirectly (or maybe not so indirectly) soliciting negative comments, despite your disclaimer. I don't see that this is a Panhellenic approach at all.
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Yikes, I really didn't mean to come off this way. I was more curious about if it was more common for the rusher to acknowledge that the girl had pledged before when talking to her, or act like it had never happened and just have a standard conversation.
I wasn't implying that anyone would ever be rude to a PNM, no matter what the circumstances, and I'm not trying to dig into the selection process or stir up negativity. I was genuinely just interested in what people think the best way to go about the situation is because I know it happens but I haven't had to deal with it myself. My question was meant to be about what happens during the actual party, not so much about selection, but I could have phrased it better.