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Originally Posted by greek222
Although there are not specific rules about this set in our bylaws, I'm wondering what actions I should/should not take about a sister dating my ex boyfriend. The two had worked together all summer (while my boyfriend and I were still together) and after 5 years together we broke up about 2 months ago. Now I am seeing things online which are leading me to strongly believe that they have more than a working relationship (and have been for a few weeks). I am not close with this sister or her circle of friends by any means, but I still think that she is crossing the line and is not being very "sisterly". Have things like this happened in your chapters? Am I overreacting or is this something I should bring forward to Standards?
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Have things like this happened before in other chapters? Yes. Absolutely.
Are you overreacting? In my opinion, yes. Try to let it go. Easier said than done, I know, but still.
Should you bring this to Standards? I think I'd try to find another way of dealing with it. You've already said there aren't any rules/bylaws prohibiting this. Bringing her to Standards will only make things worse for everyone, including you.
Best of luck. It's hard breaking up, and it's hard seeing him move on (with a sister, no less), but you'll move on to greener pastures soon enough.
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