Cardinal Rule Broken by Our Greek Advisor ;-(

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by shirley1929

But maybe the NPC/NPHC rules were unclear 10 (or so?) years ago when she joined the NPHC org.

The rules have been clear for much longer than 10 years. They were definitely clear when I was an aspirant and that was almost 20 years ago. This person knows what she got away with. She would probably not bring this up in front of certain people. Those people probably include other NPHCers, many of her sorors, and members of her alumnae chapter.

[shirley1929]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

The rules have been clear for much longer than 10 years. They were definitely clear when I was an aspirant and that was almost 20 years ago. This person knows what she got away with. She would probably not bring this up in front of certain people. Those people probably include other NPHCers, many of her sorors, and members of her alumnae chapter.

Gotcha...was attempting to give benefit of the doubt...wanted to see glass 1/2 full...all that other metaphor BS.

[LXA SE285]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

This person knows what she got away with. She would probably not bring this up in front of certain people. Those people probably include other NPHCers, many of her sorors, and members of her alumnae chapter.

I tend to think that for this reason, things will blow up in her face without somebody actively dropping a dime on her. Word will get out eventually to these people.

[MaryPoppins]

Originally Posted by LXA SE285

I tend to think that for this reason, things will blow up in her face without somebody actively dropping a dime on her. Word will get out eventually to these people.

If OP goes and does something about this is will blow up in OP's face. Best to let this come out on it's own as it will inevitably happen when the time is right.

[LXA SE285]

Originally Posted by MaryPoppins

Best to let this come out on it's own as it will inevitably happen when the time is right.

I could easily see her getting busted, say, at a staff function of some sort when some clueless person on the interview panel introduces her to an NPHC-er: "Myrna is a member of both XYZ and ABC! Isn't that just lovely?" WOMP WOMP.

[33girl]

Call her NPHC headquarters immediately. I would also ask them to impress upon your college that this is 5000 kinds of wrong and she should be removed from her position.

People - this is TEN YEARS AGO. That's NOT that long, and certainly long enough that the rules about not having dual membership were in place (not to mention long enough to look up all these things on the internet). We are not talking about a sweet little old lady who forgot that she joined KKG in 1954. We are talking about a 32 year old woman who apparently is very good at preying on chapters with low enough self esteem to accept this shiz.

Can you imagine if this got out what it would do to the rush process - for ALL conferences - at this school? People would be demanding to change groups left and right, because this woman is setting such a horrid example.