I think that is a wonderful suggestion Pineapple. Let's face it, there are probably just as many girls that get thier second or third choice than there are that get thier first choice. Im sure if you polled many of the PNM's they would tell you just that..however, they would also say that things worked out for them and they couldn't see themselves anywhere eles.
There needs to be a system in place to try to help these PNM's see that the system works. If they will just stick it out, they can have a wonderful experience.
One of the saddest things is to hear of a girl that drops because of 'tent" talk or other pre-concieved notions and then finds that she could have been really happy with what she had..she sees that girls that she really likes or respects stuck it out and went with that particular house or houses and she regrets her decison..but at that point it's too late..my daughter told many stories just like this...
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