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I know this has been said before, but it came up fresh last night.
Never tell an active you are going XYZ because it may come back and bite you on your proverbial arse!
Legacies cut and get cut for many different reasons.
Of 30+ girls my daughter knows who said what about which sororities. Even though she may really like some of these young ladies, do you think she will stand up for one who has already defined herself as a future member of XYZ? Be very careful of what you say. You may not feel comfortable in the same chapter
that Mom, Granny and Aunt Betty were in, or as happens, so MANY legacies go through, some hard decisions must be made.
I can't stress this enough-keep your mind open and your mouth closed.
Competative Rush-During the week, warn "Mom" to be warry of any phone calls out of the blue to see how it's going, who you like and don't like... Yes, it does and DID happen.
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