Could You Wait?

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Originally posted by Dexter


You are right, sex shouldn't be an addiction. But if you are in a relationship, it is something personal and intimate between the two of you. Ask yourself what exactly is sex. It's the act of becoming one with someone else. When do you think it is time to share your whole self with your significant other. Basically I think womenshould stand on whatever belifs they have as far as sex is concerned. But I'm just saying be honest about why you are or aren't doing it. Telling a man, " we should move slow" is just another way of saying," I don't fully trust you right now, but give me some to let you earn my trust.

[/B] You're right it's the act of becoming one with someone.But not just "someone", but someone you love and it's also the act of becoming one PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY.Ask yourself how much emphasis, you place on sex in a relationship.Here's a question for you.Think about someone you are attracted to sexually. Ask yourself would you engage in intercourse with her. Of course , the answer is going to be yes.Let's say she you lived in California and she lived in New York. Let's say she was stranded and she wanted you to pick her up.Would you drive to go get her?Your answer is no right?That's how much you value a sexual relationship over a person in general.