Thank you ladies, that was all very helpful! I especially like what a few of you have mentioned about letting them lead the way, I suppose that's the best idea to not push any to write more than they feel comfortable, but give the option.
For clarification, the way my path has worked out is that I'll be classified as a full-fledged junior, with an A.A. already completed before fall. It's not too out of the ordinary, so I guess we'll just see when the paperwork comes out how to mark it. (I'm mostly okay with this because of the new quota and having a much higher college GPA!)
I found a new alumni who I actually know today, which was super exciting! But she has apparently not written any rec's before. (shocking because she's my high school teacher!)
I told her what I would bring in to her once I have it all gathered, and I get the vibe that she doesn't know where to get any forms or whatnot, any suggestions on what to tell her?
And lastly, is it uncommon/unwise to approach these things with friends? I have a few going to my school and a nearby one who are planning on rushing (2 or 3) who knew nothing about rush either! It's a fairly close community, would it be bizarre if we contacted the same women, or asked to meet them together?
I'm not terribly uncomfortable braving it alone but we're all searching high and low to cover all the sororities (10+ with most in common) so do you think it'd be less of an inconvenience to the writers if we all met with them simultaneously? I get the feeling there aren't a lot of girls going after letters from my town, oddly.
I don't want to bombard the alumni with too much information at once, but I was thinking maybe it would give it a relaxed more natural kind of setting if they choose to write personal ones, and all of our rec packets could keep the writer organized afterwards. Am I being crazy here haha, how would you feel if PNM's approached you with this?
Thanks again!
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