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Originally Posted by gr33kfan
So I've talked to a few girls in sororities, and they said that a lot of it has to do with who the social chair is friends with. There have been mixers where no one wants to show up but the social chair planned it anyway because they have friends in that fraternity. Similarly, some more "up there" frats couldn't get mixers either for the same reason even though the sisters themselves wouldn't have minded mixing with them. Is there any way to solve this problem?
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Ummm, those chicks are feeding you a massive pot full of BS.
Social chairs don't have that kind of dictatorial power. If they kept scheduling mixers with groups that no one wanted to mix with and not listening to anyone's input, they would get kicked out of their office in a New York second. The social calendar has to be voted on - whether it's week to week or far in advance, the chair can't just say "we have a mandatory mixer with ABC" and no one else knows about it or has had any say in it.
This is the equivalent of girls in sororities telling disappointed rushees "OMG, we all LOVED you, I don't know how you didn't get a bid, the computer must have screwed it up!" No, the computer is working fine. They just didn't give the girl a bid.
Forget the sororities and try mixing with the dance team and such. If the above attitude from NPC women really is the norm at your school, you'll have much more fun.
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