Hello! New and Needing help! :D (Mother/Daughter sorority)

[adeleilori]

Originally Posted by 33girl

Call me crazy, but aren't most 9 year olds wanting to be in clubs and such to establish a separate identity from their parents?

oh no, not her! She literally CRAVES my attention! It can be a little bit daunting at times, because I am so busy homeschooling the three of them, cooking cleaning, taking care of the 1 yr old and working 4 hours every day from home. lol! The boys dont care as much, but she wants some "no boy" time.. lol!

[33girl]

Originally Posted by adeleilori

oh no, not her! She literally CRAVES my attention! It can be a little bit daunting at times, because I am so busy homeschooling the three of them, cooking cleaning, taking care of the 1 yr old and working 4 hours every day from home. lol! The boys dont care as much, but she wants some "no boy" time.. lol!

Then just say "every Thursday evening (or whenever your husband can take care of the boys) is our no boy time." Making a sweatshirt for it doesn't make it happen. Make a plan and stick to it, no excuses. I guarantee she'll appreciate that more than any Greek letters.

[adeleilori]

Originally Posted by 33girl

Then just say "every Thursday evening (or whenever your husband can take care of the boys) is our no boy time." Making a sweatshirt for it doesn't make it happen. Make a plan and stick to it, no excuses. I guarantee she'll appreciate that more than any Greek letters.

Oh I completely agree! and we do already do that as well! The club idea is just more of a theme I guess for us to have projects to work around - together. But again.. I can totalyl just make this soem little group with a name we come up with together.. it doedn't have to stomp on greek lettering. (I didn't know!) I hear you! and thanks!