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You sound like you're looking for reasons to not be in a sorority. Which fraternities a sorority plans mixers with varies greatly sometimes and is a relatively minor part of being in a sorority. I barely went to mixers at all or went and stayed for a very short time. Not to mention, the boyfriend you're with now may not be the man you're with for a lifetime. Both of my serious boyfriends in college were in fraternities and they went to their mixers, I went to mine and we'd meet up after if we wanted to, usually at White Castle, where the whole greek system went after parties...lol. It isn't a huge deal.
You have until the minute before you're Initiated to make a decision. Give it time and try looking at the positives. You accepted a bid there for a reason. They gave you a bid for a reason.
ETA: A common phrase used during my new member period was "You get out of it what you put into it." I believe that pretty strongly. If you don't make an effort to give it your all, you won't get anything back. That's the way life is in general.
Last edited by AGDee; 02-11-2012 at 01:48 PM.
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