Just remind A to be open to what she hears and sees today at the preference parties. These parties have changed a girl's mind many many times. I would also suggest she accept any bid offered her and give it a couple weeks. She can always quit before initiation if she still doesn't feel that connection. Rush is so not anything like real life that they can really put things out of perspective.
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