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OK, so I have to say - Sigma Kappa was my number one choice after round one, and it stayed close to the top all week.
That said, after round two, there were only two houses out of the eight where I really couldn't see myself.
By round three I was in love with all of my houses (I had four left), and I loved, loved, loved both of the houses I preffed.
My two pref parties were night and day - equally moving, equally sincere. But Sigma Kappa was just a tiny bit more "me" than Alpha Gamma Delta.
I ultimately believe that they could have put the names of all 18 sororities in a hat, picked one and said, "OK, you're going to ZYX" and I would have been fine there.
I don't believe that every sorority is completely interchangeable with every other sorority. But I think they're more alike than they are different.
I often tell people, "I bring fun with me" - and I think that we all do - you can't join a sorority and expect that being a member suddenly opens every door. You have to bring something to the table.
And whether you end up at KD or ASA or AEPhi or even if you bag recruitment and join the Geology Club - ultimately, you're still you.
It's not that I don't place value in my sisterhood. It was, has been and will always be a special part of me - but in answer to your question - it
wasn't just a huge moment of clarity where I said, "Ok, this is it".
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