Unusual situation-how much do I tell?

[rockette676]

thanks so much for your help! I agree that I don't want to be sharing too much.. my anorexia would not be the topic of the discussion on a first date! I guess I'm more concerned about them finding out about my history with the other school and GED- how would I handle explaining that? Maybe I'm thinking too much into this...

[Barbie's_Rush]

"I finished my freshman year at the community college in MyHomeTown. I'm so excited to be here at MyNewUniversity." Then talk about why you chose the school and what you plan to do there etc. etc. Practice until it flows naturally and you don't feel you have to spill about your prior difficulties. Remember, no one is trying to 'trap' you. They're just trying to get to know you and figure out if you'll be a good fit.

Also, someone can correct me, but since you're a CC transfer I think all they will see is that GPA?

[aephi alum]

Apply the KISS rule: Keep It Simple, Stupid. (I'm not saying you're stupid. Just the opposite - you were very smart to get the treatment you needed. But KIS doesn't make sense as an acronym. )

Rusher: I understand you just arrived at Exciting U. as a sophomore?
rockette676: Yes.
Rusher: So where did you transfer from?
rockette676: Actually, I spent a year at Local Community College, but I transferred here because I really want a 4-year degree and Exciting U. is close to home and has an awesome biology program.
Rusher: Wow, that's so interesting! Oh, hey - here's my sister OtherRusher. She's a bio major too, and a sophomore. You'll probably have some classes together ...

etc.

If you are grilled about why you have a GED instead of a normal high school diploma, etc., just say you had some problems with your health. If the rusher pushes it, just say you'd rather not talk about the specifics. A good rusher won't push it.

Will you be commuting? Keep in mind that some house-operating chapters have a live-in requirement.

Good luck!