Rushing as a Junior

[~sunflower~]

I guess I should add that my school is not very competitive when it comes to rushing. It's a relativly small public state univeristy in the midwest. I personally don't believe the glitch story either, but I just wanted to share everything I had been told.

[BAckbOwlsgIrl]

You were given a bid. It was not your favorite. You went to meet the sorority on bid day.

Just how badly do you want to be in sorority? You are contradicting yourself by saying you want to be in a sorority, but, when one gave you a chance, you declined. Sounds like you want to be in sorority that meets your idealist needs. It does not work way. You screwed yourself.

There are countless stories on Greek Chat of those who did not get their first choice, pledged and found something. One member can make a difference. You never gave those women a chance.

[MaggieXi]

You won't know unless you try. Realize though, if you do rush again, you may have several strikes against you, depending on the greek life system on your campus. On some campuses, even not super competitive and smaller groups may see you as damaged goods or think that you think that you are better than their NPC sisters that you declined a bid from.

I would suggest that if you have friends in sororities, talk to them about potentially re-rushing. Ask them to be honest and not blow rainbows up your butt.