Pledge Class Issue

[Gusteau]

I think a good piece of advice (that I cannot, for the life of me, remember where I heard) is, "Being cordial to someone you don't like isn't fake, it's mature."

In other words, what they said.

[33girl]

She's a jerk. Invite her to any "pledge class" things, and other than that, avoid her. Trust me, there will be more than a few sisters that won't be your favorites over the years...unless your chapter is extremely small or extremely homogenous.

Although, why didn't she go to bars with initiated sisters? Being a pledge has nothing to do with that - she's 22. If sisters excluded her or told her she "wasn't allowed" to go with them because of her pledge status, they should probably be reprimanded for hazing and reported to your national HQ - because that's pretty much the definition of it.