So discouraged and considering dropping from the sorority...?

PioChiO · #1 02-15-2011, 12:54 AM

I'm a NM too and you really do get out of it the amount of effort you put. Try to spend some time with your new sisters. If you're really still having doubts when initiation rolls around, that's one thing - but give it time still.

33girl · #2 02-15-2011, 01:10 AM

You've only been involved with the sorority for SEVEN DAYS. That isn't nearly enough time to feel that you're being "left out" of things.

prettyv's post has LOTS of good ideas. I forgot about how awesome summer school (or just visiting/being around over summer) can be as far as getting to know your sisters and the Greek community in general. There's no mixers, meetings, or competitions of any kind, so everyone just chills and has a good time together.

agzg · #3 02-15-2011, 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by 33girl

prettyv's post has LOTS of good ideas. I forgot about how awesome summer school (or just visiting/being around over summer) can be as far as getting to know your sisters and the Greek community in general. There's no mixers, meetings, or competitions of any kind, so everyone just chills and has a good time together.

The summers were my favorite. Less stress, trips to the beach (Presque Isle Beach 6 represent!), informal parties, porch sitting.