Recruiting Another Fraternity's Pledge

[AlphaFrog]

Originally Posted by lucgreek

Eh, I think that's a little unfair. I've seen similar posts from girls about rush crushes. I think he's convinced himself how great of guys they are and hasn't looked objectively at the situation.

Yeah most guys would let it go, but clearly he hasn't. I wouldn't read anything more into it than rush crush.

Herein lies the distinction.

Also, that's assuming this poster is for realz to begin with, which I'm not ready to do yet.

[lucgreek]

Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

Herein lies the distinction.

Also, that's assuming this poster is for realz to begin with, which I'm not ready to do yet.

Eh, I guess we just see this from a different perspective. I think it's kind of an unfair double standard. I've seen worse from girls here and it was viewed as absolutely fine, but if it's a guy it has hints of some homo-erotic lust?

I mean, I definitely agree it's bordering on obsession with the OP. I just don't think it's any different than a girl obsessing over her rush crush.

Then again I'm a guy and never experienced any kind of rush crushing, so what do I know?

*insert debate about gender roles in society here*