Getting Married Young- Why?

[PiKA2001]

Originally Posted by Munchkin03

Did you know a lot of people who went into the military in order to get married?

That happened to my cousin. He was sprung over his girlfriend, he didn't care too much about going to college, and my aunt was too busy rutting men she met on BlackPlanet to care what her son was doing. So, he enlisted in 2001, his girlfriend barely finished HS and they got married as soon as she graduated from HS (like, the next day). Surprisingly, they're still together 8 years later. I do know a ton of other people who tried the same thing and it didn't work out so well.

If you read the personal ads on CL for towns that have nearby military towns occasionally you'll see women propositioning "mutually rewarding" marriage to military guys, sometimes just for Tricare.

The Military doesn't outright encourage their soldiers getting married but they sure as hell reward it with their BAH rates. There was a thread or discussion on this topic here prolly about 4 or 5 years ago.

[knight_shadow]

Originally Posted by PiKA2001

If you read the personal ads on CL for towns that have nearby military towns occasionally you'll see women propositioning "mutually rewarding" marriage to military guys, sometimes just for Tricare.

The Military doesn't outright encourage their soldiers getting married but they sure as hell reward it with their BAH rates. There was a thread or discussion on this topic here prolly about 4 or 5 years ago.

Hell, if you walk around Killeen/Ft Hood, you'll hear women/GIs propositioning lol

But Tricare was on point...

[pbear19]

I'll echo all the folks who have said it depends on the people involved. I never planned to marry young, but it worked out that I met the perfect guy. We are the same age. Engaged at 21, married at 23, and will be celebrating our 10 year anniversary in May. I've never regretted marrying him when I did, and I don't think we had any issues because of our age.

[Munchkin03]

Originally Posted by PiKA2001

If you read the personal ads on CL for towns that have nearby military towns occasionally you'll see women propositioning "mutually rewarding" marriage to military guys, sometimes just for Tricare.

The Military doesn't outright encourage their soldiers getting married but they sure as hell reward it with their BAH rates. There was a thread or discussion on this topic here prolly about 4 or 5 years ago.

I grew up in a military town, and that doesn't surprise me at all.