If you saw this girl intimately again, would it be another one of your mistakes??????? Are you still in contact with this girl? I sure hope that your fiancee does not frequent GC. Well, you could always say that you were simply trying to spark conversation! As for telling her, HELL NAW!!!! I wouldn't tell even if my man walked in on me and sat on the bed and held a conversation. I would swear that he didn't talk to me. He would have to put handcuffs on me and draw blood or pull a string of hair from my head and have it analyzed and even after that I would say that I was drugged or something. Don't forget to answer my question; will the next time be a mistake too!