Lavaliering, like all commitments, are risks. When you take that step, whether it's engagement or lavaliering, you always have that chance that it may make things worse or better or even the same.
I don't know what to think about the "lavaliering curse". I hope this isn't the primary reason you are shying away from it
Does your boyfriend's fraternity have "traditions" for guys who lavalier their girlfriend? When my ex-boyfriend lavaliered me, the chapter had these traditions. I suppose it signifies that he was willing to go through those things so that I could wear his letters. It was not the curse that broke us up- he had major problems, etc...
I am now lavaliered by my current boyfriend and things are going well! (it's been a year and a half!) (PS- I promise I'm not a black widow by being lavaliered twice...lol)
I too used to wear an AGD lavalier (and sometimes a disk), but have taken it off to wear my boyfriend's letters. I am in no way feel that I have given up my letters for his. I think of it differently. How many girls get to be lavaliered? There are only a very few on my campus that I have seen. It's a special thing that can be really enjoyed as a collegate!
Just a different way to look at it
I usually wear both letters- an AGD shirt with my lavalier worn where it can be seen!
[This message has been edited by AlphaGam1019 (edited July 28, 2001).]
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