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Old 09-19-2010, 04:23 PM
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Originally Posted by Alumiyum View Post
Please do yourself a favor and listen to this:

Your attitude will not help you. Your roommate might like you. She might like you enough to wish to extend you a bid. That's not the way it works. The entire chapter has to like you that much, and you have no idea (nor does she) whether or not they do. And even if they like you it doesn't mean you'll get a bid. Assuming that you will might very well keep you from being Greek at all.

And by the way, generally speaking, a sorority chapter is not going to appreciate the assumption that a PNM will get in. Learn a little tact and humility.
Adding to this: They could love you so much that they want to take you to the Panhellenic Chapel and marry you, but if you have a factor from preventing that (such as grades, academic/judicial probation, criminal record, etc), there's nothing they can do about it. I'm not saying that this is the case, I'm saying it's a possibility. We don't know you or your situation.
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