A little disappointed

[AZTheta]

Parfait, you probably won't read this until after your parties. Don't be nervous, be joyful and shine, and you'll have a great time.

And don't let that roommate or anyone else put dark clouds over your happiness.

[Parfait]

Originally Posted by AzTheta

Parfait, you probably won't read this until after your parties. Don't be nervous, be joyful and shine, and you'll have a great time.

And don't let that roommate or anyone else put dark clouds over your happiness.

Thank you. I have one more party today but it's an hour from now so we're all just chilling across chairs. Thankfully we all have time to eat.

It's been a lot of fun, but I'm paranoid about getting The Call. Some of the sisters seem nervous, too. I hope they like me as much as I like them.

[Kansas City]

Originally Posted by Parfait

It's been a lot of fun, but I'm paranoid about getting The Call. Some of the sisters seem nervous, too. I hope they like me as much as I like them.

This is almost always the case. Just a part of the mutual selection process. I'm glad you got invited back to your favorites and hope you continue with another few days of fun. Hang in there and don't fret about "the call" because if you can just be yourself and be true to yourself you will find yourself a home. As always, good luck!

[Parfait]

Yay I did not get The Call! Haha I'm so paranoid. Prefer is tomorrow and I'm excited but still nervous.

[arrowlady]

Originally Posted by Parfait

Yay I did not get The Call! Haha I'm so paranoid. Prefer is tomorrow and I'm excited but still nervous.

Don't be nervous and just enjoy your Pref night. IT is such a special time!

And I know what you mean about the roommate, when I went through Rush I had 2 roommates and neither of them rushed. In fact most the girls on my floor didn't rush. They were just blah about it. I did have 2 African American sorority girls on the floor below mine that I met in the elevator,that were super supportive so I went and talked with them every night after rush/ It was a little crazy but I really appreciated it.

My best advice is find someone in your group to spend time with after recruitment parties and avoid the roomate.

[Parfait]

I could still get The Call for Pref, I'll find out tomorrow, but the conversations today were good and I really liked the girls.

Thank you for the advice, GC, it's all really nice. I appreciate that you guys read and even respond to my fretting and worrying.

Tonight I'm going out to dinner with some girls in my group. I know I bitch a lot about my roommate on here, but I swear we do get along for the most part. We're just different. I don't want to let onto her that I'm super frustrated at times. For example, she woke me in the middle of the night a few times on purpose which irritated me. Then I irritated her when I accidentally woke her when getting ready today and yesterday. I think she gets a little offended when I meet up with someone else.