A very lovely sophomore recruitment!

[victoriana]

Thanks for the advice! These actions didn't necessarily make me feel uncomfortable, I just questioned the correctness of them. I did some research and found out that it's actually encouraged that PNMs meet with sorority members outside of recruitment. The Greek Life website said that a PNM should try to meet all or most of the members (not hard, since total is 60ish). I guess since they're not doing anything that's like... blatantly ridiculous (such as giving me Bradley Cooper's house key...I wish) I guess I'm fine with it. After all, it is a good way to get to know people so I can make a more informed choice. Plus, the last thing I would want to do is alienate a chapter or a person by reporting something like that so thanks for bringing that up, Drolefille.

I guess it's just different at every school what happens. I had a friend rush at a fairly big school just a few weeks ago, and they were really hardcore about not letting members mix with actives during recruitment. But here, apparently it's encouraged for some reason. Confuuuuusingggg!

[33girl]

Originally Posted by victoriana

But here, apparently it's encouraged for some reason.

The reason would be that the people running rush at your school have a brain in their head.

Seriously, I wish more schools would adopt this attitude. All the strict silence rules do is make everything more stressful for sisters AND rushees and give people stuff to snitch about.

That being said, sorority members shouldn't go into detail about member selection any time EVER, but it sounds like these girls are just new and a little more excited than they should be.