A little disappointed

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Parfait if this is what your heart desires then go for it - don't look back, no regrets. I agree with Myopicsunflower some peoples first line of defense is to reject before they are rejected. I hope that both you & your roommate find a special group of friends that allows both of you to shine. Keep a open mind & heart during recruitment. Remember pref night is special - it reveals the heart of each group. Stick with it you have nothing to lose no matter how recruitment turns out for you. College is about gaining knowledge and the most important knowledge you will ever gain is about yourself.

[Parfait]

Thank you, the support means a lot. =)
There's more info tonight and I'm going to that alone (assuming I can find it, they forgot to add a location!) and basically told my roommate that I will see her after. We're both adults, I think we can manage to be alone for a little bit.

She's been very nice to me, but I suppose we just have some different views on things. Welcome to life.

[HappyKappaMom]

Originally Posted by Parfait

Thank you, the support means a lot. =)
There's more info tonight and I'm going to that alone (assuming I can find it, they forgot to add a location!) and basically told my roommate that I will see her after. We're both adults, I think we can manage to be alone for a little bit.

She's been very nice to me, but I suppose we just have some different views on things. Welcome to life.

Good for you; go for it! You have nothing to lose by checking it out -- might work, might not. But if you never try, you'll never know.

Roommates are not all destined to be best friends. You may find your best friends in a sorority, like my daughter did. She & her first roommate had NOTHING in common. Four years later, mine's happy as a clam and the roommate dropped out.

Best wishes! Keep us posted. I love reading those stories.