How to get more friends in my sorority?

[33girl]

Originally Posted by caprice89

The "full black" comment was that I am the only person in my sorority that is not Caucasian. However, one other girl is biracial.

I'll take the advice on trying to spend more time with different people and asking them out. Even though when I've tried doing this girls flake out on me. Even my big and my little both had problems keeping dates with me. It was frustrating especially since they were close and hung out with each other more than myself.

In my chapter, everyone is assigned to a committee by exec and I've never been assigned to a committee that I was really interested in.

Overall, I'm just saying there is a lot of favoritism going on and I want to find ways to overlook that and feel like I'm actually welcomed and part of the sisterhood.

OK, I don't think you actually read most of the posts. DON'T "ask people out" like it's the prom or something. If you're going to grab lunch, ask someone to go with you on the spur of the moment, but for the most part - just HANG OUT more. And go to ALL (including non-mandatory) events.

People finding more in common with one person than another is not "favortism." It's just simple friendship.

Regarding the committees, you've only been a full active in your sorority for a semester. It's the same concept as freshmen congressmen not getting the plum assignments the minute they get to DC. Even if it's something that bores you, MAKE THE BEST OF IT!