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Old 08-02-2010, 02:35 AM
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Aren't these really just nautical-themed weddings? I think most weddings are pretty preppy, but I don't think of them that way.
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Old 08-02-2010, 09:35 AM
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Aren't these really just nautical-themed weddings? I think most weddings are pretty preppy, but I don't think of them that way.
See that's where I'm getting hung up, leaving out the stereotype of the "redneck wedding," destination weddings, and quiet courthouse affairs, most weddings are pretty similar. Dress, veil, suits or tuxes, bridesmaid dresses, flowers that match the theme.

But I think this thread has established that I have no eye for this sort of thing.
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Old 08-02-2010, 10:05 AM
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Aren't these really just nautical-themed weddings?
I don't think of nautical and preppy as the same thing at all. Preppy, especially New England preppy may incorporate nautical elements, but there is a difference.

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See that's where I'm getting hung up, leaving out the stereotype of the "redneck wedding," destination weddings, and quiet courthouse affairs, most weddings are pretty similar. Dress, veil, suits or tuxes, bridesmaid dresses, flowers that match the theme.

But I think this thread has established that I have no eye for this sort of thing.
No, I think part of the problem is that, as has been noted, preppy can mean what I'll call "true preppy" -- as in prep school and those for whom prep school is the norm -- and it can also mean what designers label a "preppy style", like what you see in lots of the pictures posted in this thread. That preppy style has taken on a life of its own, and like I've said, often that style doesn't reflect what I've called true preppy.

True preppy is marked by a conservatism, a we've-always-done-it-this-way-because-this-is-how-it's-done attitude. I'll give you an example:

Google turned up these on preppy wedding invitations:





The use of the colors and the style of script reflect a preppy style, but no true, old-school preppy would ever dream of sending either of those invitations. There's no reason for the invitation to look any different from mama's or grandmama's, and there's certainly no reason for color.

Okay, I exaggerate a little -- a concession to modernity might appear in the form of a grosgrain ribbon tying everything together, but the ribbon would not be apple green or pink.
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Old 08-02-2010, 10:54 AM
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I don't think of nautical and preppy as the same thing at all. Preppy, especially New England preppy may incorporate nautical elements, but there is a difference.

No, I think part of the problem is that, as has been noted, preppy can mean what I'll call "true preppy" -- as in prep school and those for whom prep school is the norm -- and it can also mean what designers label a "preppy style", like what you see in lots of the pictures posted in this thread. That preppy style has taken on a life of its own, and like I've said, often that style doesn't reflect what I've called true preppy.

True preppy is marked by a conservatism, a we've-always-done-it-this-way-because-this-is-how-it's-done attitude. I'll give you an example:
No, I do get that marketed "preppy" and prep-school/old money are different. But as "traditional" weddings are particularly, well, traditional, I wouldn't be able to tell the difference between a true preppy wedding and a regular wedding. I'm sure there are all sorts of rules I don't know anything about and that they're all unwritten and mostly unspoken and if you have to ask you'll never know

Going to a Catholic school, we got called preppy just because we were the closest thing to a prep school around and we cost money, even though not everyone there was well off.

Like I said, I suspect I just don't 'get' it.
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