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Originally Posted by Drolefille
You can't always help who you fall in love with, but you can help what you do about it.
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I would say that I disagree with this statement. I think that you can't help who you're attracted to, sure, but you can help who you fall in love with. The distinction in my mind would be that falling in love takes time and effort-- attraction is typically instantaneous or happens after a short period of time. Maybe I'm just mincing words here, but I think in this discussion the difference is pertinent-- you can't help that you thought that guy/girl is hot, but you can choose to not give in and try to pursue interaction with them/choose not to react when they try to interact with you.
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