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Old 05-17-2002, 01:29 AM
stoplook_listen stoplook_listen is offline
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U R not Alone

Quote from Optimizim17:

"I would be secretly thinking 'if i never know we can be happy' "
"I know what I think goes against the grain and I sometimes feel like I shouldn't think like this, but it is the honest truth."

I'm glad you were honest enough to admit that.
I guess I'm NOT on Crack or Crazy.

Your stance is not the most popular, never the less
I doubt you are the only one who thinks like that
(just one of the few who'll admit to it )
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Old 05-07-2007, 02:39 PM
phorbidden1246 phorbidden1246 is offline
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Red face oh my....

Wow...never knew this was America's number 1 topic.

Just joined and saw this in the frat's section. Heated convo eh?

This is the way I see it. There's a poem I'm sure we all had to memorize/learn/live with by the name of Inviticus which I will use to argue my point of view

"Out of the darkness that covers me
Black as the pit from pole to pole
I thank whatever gods maybe
for my UNCONQUERABLE SOUL."

-The human spirit is quite strong. However we, as human, don't truly live up to our potential. We were made in the image of God....nuff said.

"In the fell cluthes of circumstance
I have not winched nor cried aloud.
In the bludgeoning(check my spelling) of chance
My head is BLOODIED BUT UNBOWED."

-Whoever said it'd be easy. Blood, sweat, and tears come from experience. Sometimes we have to make a mistake in order to never do it again. In defense of the Six that made the mistake(Professor), I say that we all have the potential to cheat provided that we are put in the right place at the right time. Never said it was right though. Again, we are human.

"In this place of wrath and tears
Looms the horror of the shade.
And yet the menace of the years
Finds me and shall FIND ME UNAFRAID."

-Be a man or woman and face the consequences of your decisions. It's a part of maturity.

"It matters not how strait the gate
How charged with punishment the scroll
For I AM THE MASTER OF MY FATE
and the CAPTAIN OF MY SOUL."

-One of God's greatest gifts to mankind/womankind is the power of choice. Please use it wisely.

And it's not just to the brothers either. This is to women too! I've been burnt before. And I never cheated in my life!! Stop this idiotic cycle of pain and frustration here and now please.
That's my 6 cents!
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Old 05-07-2007, 08:06 PM
AKA_Monet AKA_Monet is offline
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Hilarious!

Cheating men will get caught eventually. Maybe not by the original cheated, but maybe by a lately cheated... Women cheat too. I don't know if they are fundamentally similar in tactics or different in outcomes? But, bottom line, humans have high infidelity wired into our systems. It is the same with the chimpanzee. Whereas, the gorilla males generally have 2 mates only and always...

Survival of the fittest...

But if we are talking about love, a trule erotic deep love shared by a husband and wife before God and all that good stuff, then the room for cheating is a spiritual infraction and blasphemy before God. If one in the relationship can live a lie to his or herself and enjoy deception and become demonic by adding things that ought not be present in a Shiva/Shakti relationship, then hey, I hope they can live with themselves...

I can tell, you in my marriage, I have no control if my husband cheats on me. But those are things I do not hope to happen. However, if it did, because I made the commitment myself to not cheat on him, so he'd be the one cheating, then I hope he is happy with his life without me. And I will move on.

I have been with a cheater before I was married. I know what one looks like and the behavior. That is not a life I wish to pursue.
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Old 05-07-2007, 08:09 PM
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I never cheated, but if all the cool kids are doing it, I feel like I am missing out.
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