Is rushing out of the question for me?

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Originally Posted by wide-eyed

I don't know the answers. I know what has been said to other people, but what I'm looking for is a reaction to my situation. I know it must be annoying to see me repeat the same things over and over, but I just don't think anyone is understanding me....

I'm trying to figure out if (generally, or to narrow it down for you, in a competitive school), having done other activities instead of join a sorority, has put me at a disadvantage compared to, for example, another girl is also a junior but didn't have the option to rush before. Do you understand?

I was doing a sort of general survey, in which I was hoping people would post their initial reaction. Which now that I say that... I guess that's what people did, but I wanted them to realize that I have read the other threads, and I'm not just trying avoid reading. If it's so annoying to answer questions that have already been asked, why not just leave it alone?

I'm not being sarcastic or anything, I'm asking these questions seriously.

Do you possibly understand that not only have your "questions" been answered in this thread, they've been answered in COUNTLESS other threads. You are not unique!

PMing me about it is not going to get you a different answer!