After Several Years: What Do You Think of the New Release Figures?

[33girl]

Originally Posted by BadCat25

The real reason is that when you put on that new member pin on bid day you are advertising your social status to everyone and not a lot of young, dumb girls want to advertise that they are at the bottom of the social food chain. They would rather just opt out of the greek system entirely. The sad thing is that if all these girls stayed in and worked to build up the chapter they would end up with the reputation as a chapter of the rise but that's not how young, dumb girls think.

Fixed your post.

This is why rush shouldn't be your first huge decision when you get to college. You should have some time to get away from HS and your family and become your OWN person before having to worry "OMG, what are people going to think of me if I join this sorority?"

[BadCat25]

Originally Posted by 33girl

Fixed your post.

This is why rush shouldn't be your first huge decision when you get to college. You should have some time to get away from HS and your family and become your OWN person before having to worry "OMG, what are people going to think of me if I join this sorority?"

But unless you go to a college with deferred recruitment as I do, rush is the first decision when you get to college. You join a sorority before classes even start. As far as these girls being dumb, they are not dumb, just very socially competitive. As I remember back to my high school class, it was the socially competitive girls who rushed and the others not so much.

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by BadCat25

But unless you go to a college with deferred recruitment as I do, rush is the first decision when you get to college. You join a sorority before classes even start. As far as these girls being dumb, they are not dumb, just very socially competitive. As I remember back to my high school class, it was the socially competitive girls who rushed and the others not so much.

Of course they're not dumb. I think that when you are rushing before school even starts (or even in Sept or Oct) you are still very much in the HS mindset of "OMG I want to do what everyone else does and what is popular." So if you hear your whole floor say "I want to be in ABC or XYZ!" or "All the most popular kids from HS end up in XYZ" you are obviously going to think that ABC and XYZ are the best and are going to want that. You have little concept of the fact that you should make your own decisions.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by BadCat25

But unless you go to a college with deferred recruitment as I do, rush is the first decision when you get to college. You join a sorority before classes even start. As far as these girls being dumb, they are not dumb, just very socially competitive. As I remember back to my high school class, it was the socially competitive girls who rushed and the others not so much.

Yes. That's my point. Thank you for re-making it. I meant "dumb" in the sense of naive.