@ 33girl... do they have something way up here? If so, send me a pm or post a link so I can check it out
@Aopirose: Thanks for the links, I'll see if I can figure something out.. it's just an overwhelming amount of information

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I am going to let it go in regards to her not following through, as for the reasons? I know exactly why she hasn't followed through, and it turns out there has been a lot more things going on with this person than the rest of the family ever imagined! It's just so sad when no one knows how to handle it, and it just keeps escalating.. I can live with what she's done to me.. I mean, I still have time to fix it, but other things that have come out are just downright appalling!