A unique and kind of sad recruit story

[SydneyK]

Originally Posted by Stanleypeep

I guess what fascinates me most is why you WOULDN'T welcome those who aren't a part of the system actively to join the conversation even after they've not received a bid/maintained active/disaffiliated.

No one has said that the women you've just described aren't welcome to join the conversation. My GC experience has shown that, if anything, women who aren't Greek stop posting on their own accord (or, obviously, never start) instead of being told/asked not to by GCers.

Originally Posted by Stanleypeep

Mostly I was interested to see your opinion on my experience, if to you it seemed normal.

But you've already said it's unique, so this makes very little sense. (Because, generally, normal things aren't unique. Although, there's certainly an argument to be made about the accuracy of that statement.)

Originally Posted by Stanleypeep

Specifically, did any of you experience other girls in your pledge class who seemed nice at first, but did some questionable things, but wasn't dismissed or reprimanded for them?

THIS is the main reason, IMO, you posted your whole story. It feels like you're asking us to share things that aren't anyone's business. This type of question isn't kosher.