and zillini, I understand all of your advice except the knowing actives. is there a possible way of knowing any actives when i'm 2000 miles away? (legit question, not being sarcastic lol)
I don't think she realized you were that far away because you didn't specify You never know though, someone you know might be in one of the groups.
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