When Defriending Hurts !!

[tld221]

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

I never knew being defriended was so serious.

I mean, if someone defriends me, we probably aren't friends in real life anyway so it doesn't matter.

Besides, who checks their # of friends everyday to even know when someone defriends them?

you know! the one person who defriended me (that i was aware of), i only knew because i tried to post on their FB wall and i could only get to their limited page. turns out they started a new page with an alternate name. apparently i wasnt included in the carryover, but turns out i was one of MANY who didnt make the cut.

its cool, i didnt like her anyway!

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by tld221

its cool, i didnt like her anyway!

What if you did like her, though? LOL. Would it be that serious?

[33girl]

A guy that I went to HS and college defriended me - I sent him a message and asked what was up. He said that some of my friends had been writing "inappropriate things" on my page and that he was worried about his kids seeing it. At first I thought, awww, how dadlike - then I thought about it AGAIN and realized the friends posting inappropriate things were people he was ALSO friends with, who had the same if not worse on their pages!! So I just put him on block so I can pretend he doesn't exist. We have had a very weird relationship over the years - he's either the sweetest guy on earth or treats me like something on the bottom of his shoe. I have the feeling he's always wondering "will this social interaction cause me to be seen positively?" He's James Spader in Pretty In Pink, basically.