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I hate how all the PNM's say how they got along so well with a certain group and that group dropped then and they feel let on. The object of a sorority member during recruitment is to sell her sorority so yeah they are going to be really nice and make you feel good but it's not to lead you on, it's just the organization wants to make quota and make sure they have enough PNM's who want them as well.
All I can say is that let this be your first dissapointment as an adult. There are going to be lots more... try job interviewing, it's the same thing. You can go to a job interview and they can be really nice and make you feel like you want to really work for them and bam! they hire someone else.
Also, as a sophomore you may have a reputation already. I'm not insinuating that you do but I know from experience we had one girl that looked amazing on paper and was absolutely drop dead gorgeous HOWEVER she was very popular with lot's of men on campus and her reputation was known. She was dropped from all the houses because that kind of behavior is a HUGE liability.
None of us know what the reason was but I am sure there are other things to get involved in.
Good luck in everything and I am sure you will have a wonderful college career.
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