nervous pnm....

[gee_ess]

It sounds like you really want to try for it one more time. I think you should BUT should be aware that rushing as a sophomore (depending on the campus) can be more difficult. As stated above, there is no guarantee that you will get your first choice this time. True, last year's disappointment could have been a fluke, but it could happen again.

Take some time to read the advice given on here for sophomores. Be honest with yourself and determine if you are going back through for XYZ only, or you really just want to be Greek. If it is for XYZ only, that is fine, as long as you realize it may not work out. If you want to be Greek, accept the fact that your choices may be limited this year.

Don't live with regrets, go for it once more, just go with your eyes and heart wide open to the variety of outcomes.

[live&letlive26]

thanks for your advice! Thats the thing though I think last year when i rushed I feel in love with my first choice and closed my eyes to any other house. I in NO WAY think that my friends will get me into a certain house. To be honest the house I loved last year im not even sure its for me anymore! I feel that I am a completely different person this year and I am much more confidnet in myself. If i got through rush it will not be with the intention of getting into that one house & i really hope the girls in that house dont think that. I just hope that people will understand and not write me off because of what i went through last year.