Not Keen on Having Kids support thread

[AOII Angel]

I don't really care about the happenings in the world as a reason not to have kids, either. I'm not really a worrier...there have ALWAYS been reasons not to have children! I like the fact that I can travel EVERY weekend. I can buy whatever I want and not have to worry that my kid doesn't have what he/she needs. I don't have to worry that I don't have enough patience (I don't have patience...I just don't.) I can enjoy my husband and my marriage...I see so many marriages after children turn into disasters. I think many people give up on that relationship and just focus on the kids...it's so sad! I love my career. I love my life. I don't want to have to change the life I have for a child, and I certainly don't want to have a child and put it second to my lifestyle. Therefore...I don't have children!