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I know, I'm double posting, but slong the same lines:
Just like "feeling at home" with your new chapter takes time, it also TAKES EFFORT.
You likely are NOT going to become BFFs with every single girl in your chapter overnight.
You also are not going to bond with your new sorority sisters by just sitting back and expecting them to make all the effort to get to know you.
Just like other relationships, friendships within a sorority take time and effort.
You are not going to "feel at home" or "bond with anyone" by sitting back and sulking about being in your 2nd or 3rd choice.
If you really want to feel at home, you have to:
Get to know members
Attend events
Hang out
Have fun
Get involved.
If you are just so upset about getting a bid there that you aren't willing to do any of those things, then maybe you re-think your decision.
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