We're not bonding :-(

[ree-Xi]

I found the smaller moments, when we weren't trying but rather just walking to class, eating lunch, etc., to be the opportunities for bonding to take place. It's like when you move in with someone (a partner, spouse, roommate - the day to day stuff is the stuff that tries you and that binds you.

[Little32]

Agree with the above. Don't put too much pressure on yourself to develop a relationship that matches the image that you have conjured up in your mind of what "bonding" looks like. Do that and you will most likely miss the moments where you are developing a relationship and a rapport.

Certainly continue to reach out, but also realize that this is a two way street and she will have to reciprocate in order to achieve the end goal. You can not forge a relationship all by yourself.

The rapport, the sisterly bond will come.