Sent to Standards- Help!

[AOII Angel]

Suck it up! You broke the rules; you got caught. It doesn't matter who else was disciplined. You admit that YOU were in the WRONG. Make amends and don't worry about what other sisters are getting away with.

[girlonfire]

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[tri deezy]

When I was a collegiate member of my chapter, it was made very clear that the women on the standards board could never talk about what happened in standards, but they couldn't really keep the girls who were called in to standards from telling their roommates what happened if they wanted to. It was sort of like it was their business to tell. Besides, everyone would notice if they were on social probation. (What would a girl say, "nah, I just didn't feel like going to formal or the last three mixers...") I think this is a situation in which we can politely remind the OP that her other sisters may very well have been called to standards and they didn't want to tell her. That's all.

[Jimmy Choo]

Originally Posted by tri deezy

When I was a collegiate member of my chapter, it was made very clear that the women on the standards board could never talk about what happened in standards, but they couldn't really keep the girls who were called in to standards from telling their roommates what happened if they wanted to. It was sort of like it was their business to tell. Besides, everyone would notice if they were on social probation. (What would a girl say, "nah, I just didn't feel like going to formal or the last three mixers...") I think this is a situation in which we can politely remind the OP that her other sisters may very well have been called to standards and they didn't want to tell her. That's all.

So very true!