On Getting Married: How did you decide he or she was "the one"?

[AGDee]

I can only tell you the wrong reasons, because neither of the men that I thought were "the one" ended up being the one:
1) Because you'd been together through the last 3 years of college, have graduated, gotten jobs, he asked and that's the next step in life.
2) Because he fits a list of requirements that you developed after your first divorce to try to make a better choice next time, and you have a fun dating relationship and he is your best friend, even though there is really no passion.