Need Advice :)

[srmom]

Thanks for your posts. My son actually said something about a restraining order and I kind of laughed it off as being extreme - until I had my run in with her yesterday, now I see where he's coming from.

I am going to call her mom (GULP) this evening to see if we can set up a meeting. I'm sure they must be aware that things are not okay with her. I just have never had to have this type of conversation before and really don't relish it. But, it is in her, and my son's, best interest to get this to stop.

[WVU alpha phi]

Originally Posted by srmom

Thanks for your posts. My son actually said something about a restraining order and I kind of laughed it off as being extreme - until I had my run in with her yesterday, now I see where he's coming from.

I am going to call her mom (GULP) this evening to see if we can set up a meeting. I'm sure they must be aware that things are not okay with her. I just have never had to have this type of conversation before and really don't relish it. But, it is in her, and my son's, best interest to get this to stop.

I'm glad you've decided to call her parents. I dealt with an extreme breakup in high school (my parents tossed around the idea of a restraining order as well). My mom contacted his mom after he showed up at my house at 10pm while my dad was out of town with several private school girls (I went to public school, he went to private) and repeatedly called my house and cell phone demanding I come outside so they could "kick my ass". My mom called his mother to tell her, and her response? "He's really upset about the break up."

I completely think it's the right idea to tell her parents.. just brace yourself for the possibility of an unusual response!

[MysticCat]

Originally Posted by WVU alpha phi

My mom contacted his mom after he showed up at my house at 10pm while my dad was out of town with several private school girls . . . .

Your mom was okay with your dad being out of town with all those private school girls?!

(Sorry, I just couldn't resist. )

Srmom, good luck!! I think you're doing the right thing. I just hope the girl's parents are willing to listen and hear.

[AOII Angel]

Originally Posted by srmom

Thanks for your posts. My son actually said something about a restraining order and I kind of laughed it off as being extreme - until I had my run in with her yesterday, now I see where he's coming from.

I am going to call her mom (GULP) this evening to see if we can set up a meeting. I'm sure they must be aware that things are not okay with her. I just have never had to have this type of conversation before and really don't relish it. But, it is in her, and my son's, best interest to get this to stop.

If your son is asking for a restraining order, take it seriously! Don't wait for the parent's too handle this one. Your son senses that this girl may be a little dangerous. I wouldn't blow off his instincts.