Is this too much interest too soon?

[Scandia]

He seems like a good person. And his very caring (ok, bordering on smothering) and gushy personality are great for his job as a paramedic.

I just do not know if he is a good match for me. I need a lot of space since I am such an independent person.

That, and I do wonder if this is objectively too much interest too soon and a sign that he could turn possessive or the sort.

[KSUViolet06]

If you're really curious, it's okay to meet for a casual lunch date and see how he is in person. If he's overzealous and creepy on your date, then you'll know not to go out with him again.