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12-11-2008, 09:39 PM
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Gwirlfriend...
If he thinks of you in the last minute, he will treat you like the last minute...
What are you willing to tolerate from this man? Is his pee-pee worth it?
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12-11-2008, 11:22 PM
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With my ex, it was part selfishness and part of his refusal to be "on a schedule" on weekends. He hates having to be a certain place at a certain time on weekends and hates planning ahead when it comes to leisure time. To him, leisure time means you do what you feel like doing when you feel like doing it. It's his rebellion against having to always be on time and be in meetings at certain times all week long at work, he claims. It IS very selfish though because there is no regard for the other person's time. But, that's my ex. He eats what he feels like eating, even if it's not what I had prepared for dinner (he would actually go get take out when I'd cooked a perfectly good meal that he usually likes just because "I feel like Mexican tonight instead of chicken". ARG! It made me nuts. He flies by the seat of his pants whenever it's not absolutely necessary (like for work).
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12-12-2008, 12:06 AM
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I tend to run late (mostly due to my job) and I have both a great friend & a great guy who also run late. Here's what I suggest:
1) Decide if he's worth it. That's something nobody but you can decide. Does he run late to work? School? Church? Other non-reschedulable events?
2) Get him a watch for Christmas, and/or an alarm clock. Some watches come with alarms - you could set a time for "call MTSUGurl".
3) Talk about it to him. Tell him your frustrations, and let him know that others are talking about it. Let him know that this could be a deal breaker. DO NOT lecture him; if he's over 15, he's heard it all before, and all he'll hear is "You always run late blah blah blah blah".
4) Set reasonable limits.
5) KEEP THEM!
6) Re-evaluate after a couple weeks.
Good luck!
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12-12-2008, 12:34 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by AKA_Monet
Gwirlfriend...
If he thinks of you in the last minute, he will treat you like the last minute...
What are you willing to tolerate from this man? Is his pee-pee worth it?
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LOL! It always seems to be.
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12-15-2008, 10:19 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by preciousjeni
LOL! It always seems to be.
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Like Hustler Magazine says: "Relax, It's Just Sex..." 
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