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Old 04-04-2002, 10:06 AM
straightBOS straightBOS is offline
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For me the question is.. Do you feel offended? Or do you think you should feel offended?

Possibly, the person who had opted out was closer to her now than the two you are, so she chose her first. A wedding needs (at least should have) some limitations and she might chosen from her immediate circle of friends first. It might not be a reflection on you but on the relationship between the two of you.

If you truly do not feel offended, then I say go and have a good time. But, if it is something that is bothering you a little, you could call your cousin and find out how she picked the bridesmaids.

Also, understand that it may have been hard for her to approach you as a replacement knowing that you might be offended and refuse because you were not the first choice.

Good Luck to you.
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